P is for Planning Your Time on Social Media

Let’s be honest—social media can be a black hole. One minute you’re posting an ancestor photo, and the next you’ve scrolled through a dozen headstone cleaning reels, four cemetery tour videos, and somehow ended up watching a tutorial on 19th-century handwriting. We’ve all been there.

That’s why planning your time on social media is so important, especially for genealogists who want to stay connected without burning out.

When we use social media intentionally, it becomes a tool, not a distraction. I like to set aside dedicated time in my week for three things:

1. Engaging – commenting on others’ posts, answering DMs, supporting fellow researchers.

2. Sharing – scheduling or posting content about my current research, family stories, or helpful tips.

3. Exploring – scrolling with purpose. Looking for new accounts, hashtags, or projects to learn from or join, and even catching up on what the genealogy community is posting about.

Even a simple plan like this can help you feel less overwhelmed and more connected. You don’t have to be “on” all the time. In fact, you’ll probably show up better (and feel better) when you’re being intentional. It is okay to turn off your social media notifications, trust me. As a social media manager, I have found that I service my clients the best when I am on social media intentionally and responding to comments and DM at a specific time.

📅 Tip: Try using a simple planner, sticky note, or even your phone’s calendar to block out 10–30 minute sessions. Treat it like research time because it’s just as valuable!

📣 How do you stay intentional with your social media time?

🧭 Challenge: This week, plan out your social media time. Even one focused session can lead to meaningful connections or a great share.